Life...
Life is a hard and tough journey on a long road. It just seems to continue and continue but one day we realise that it has passed too quickly without making us realise. Life offers lot of choices but not many chances. Its just like as if u r going on a road and suddenly u find many roads coming out of that road and u have to choose one, among all of those, and many times if we don’t know where to go we choose a wrong choice and regret latter on. Life’s also like this if we don’t know how to pass it we’ll end up taking a wrong decision and regretting afterwards.
As the famous proverb says, “time and tide waits for none” same is the case with life it never waits for anyone. We have to go with it otherwise we will left way back in the darkness with no light around, not knowing where to go from here now? What to do?
Many of us think that its not in our hand to pass our life as we want, it depends much on our luck, circumstances we have to live by, people we live with. They believe that we have to live by what our fate offers by. If its like this then I can’t understand the purpose of life if everything happens by itself than what are we here to do? LUCK our favourite shelter behind which we hide whenever anything goes wrong. But what luck actually is? Does it favour someone and not others? Was every successful person lucky? After thinking about all these questions and trying to find out an answer for them I came to the conclusion that there is some luck but its just the starting point, those who have, are a little ahead us but after start there is no luck. If someone is born intelligent he’s lucky than others but if he doesn’t works hard his intelligence will be of no use. It just takes one failure and we lose all our hope because luck isn’t favouring us without realising that failures come to teach us not to block our growth. They provide us learning opportunities. As someone rightly said that ‘we cannot change winds but we can always adjust our sails’. For me and thousand others failures are blessings, if we take them in spirit. We can always learn from our failures. If its still hard to believe than read brief life stories of few successful people and these are facts:
The greatest change that ever came in the history of mankind, was brought by Holy Prophet, Muhammad, (PBUH), the messenger of God and the last Prophet.Even that took 23 yrs.
Coca Cola company now one of the largest companies of the world. In its first year of business it sold only 400 cokes.
Basketball superstar Michael Jordan was rejected from his high school basketball team, because the coach believed that he was no good.
Rudyard Kipling once received a rejection letter from an examiner saying that he did not know how to use the English language.
Winston Churchill failed in sixth grade. He was not accepted at the oxford and Cambridge universities.
Albert Einstein did not speak until he was four years old and didn’t read until he was seven. His teacher labelled him as ‘mentally slow’. Albert Einstein doctoral dissertation was rejected by the university of Bern saying that it was irrelevant and fanciful.
Elvis Presley was told that he was not good at singing.
Louis Pasteur was a mediocre pupil in undergraduate studies and ranked almost at lowest in the chemistry class.
When Alexander Graham Bell invented the phone he made a demonstration to the President who told him it was good, but no one would use it.
Federal Smith while doing MBA was rated “C” for his idea of starting a courier company. His teacher thought, the idea is not practical.
Henry Ford failed and broke five times before he succeeded with his Ford Motor Company.
Thomas Edison was rated in his school as being ‘too slow’. As a result his mother taught him at home. His teacher said that he was too stupid to learn anything. When he invented the light bulb, he failed 2000 times before he finally succeeded.
Franklin D. Roosevelt was paralysed by polio at the age of 39 yet he became the President of the USA, four times.
Abraham Lincoln was demoted in his career in the army because he was no good.
Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor for lack of ideas. He also went bankrupt several times before he built Disneyland.
Isaac Newton did very poorly in grade school.
Chicken recipe of Colonel Sanders of KFC was rejected by 1008 restaurants across America when 1009th restaurant owner liked his recipe and he started his first restaurant in small town of Kentucky, USA.
This is just a short list of successful people around us and a research suggests that more than 90% successful people are those who were born and raised in disadvantaged classes of the society and they made success out of literally nothing. They didn’t believed in luck in fact they created luck or what I call “destiny”. Anyone of us can use these powers to be the “master of his/her own destiny” and become “lucky”. Just remember one thing that whatever it takes to make an ultimate success, all those skills, abilities and resources, are hidden inside us. We need to discover those resources and then use them to craft and create an ultimate success for ourselves. God never discriminates. We are His creatures. He loves us. He has given us so many powers and we do not realise them. We are thankless creatures. Instead of using all the God-gifted powers to become whatever we would like to become, we are always blaming Him, the society, our country, our parents, our families for all of those materials things that we do not have. We never look inside us because it is painful. The easiest thing is to blame the world for whatever we have done to ourselves. We forget that whatever we are today we are because of us and only us.
Successful people never blame others for whatever has happened to them. They know very clearly that they can make a difference in the quality of their own lives. Men are great only of they are determined to be so. The day u start taking complete responsibility of yourself, the day u stop making excuses, that’s the day u start at the top. All the successful people were sure that they deserved much more than what they had and there was only one person who could give them all they wanted, and that was their own self. Destiny is not a matter of chance: it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for; it is a thing to be achieved. One most important thing that differentiates man from animals is our ability to make a choice. If there was no evil what good was ‘goodness’. If there was no darkness who could have known the value of light. It is the death that makes life so important. Not retaliating to an abuse because u didn’t had the power, is different than having all the powers and choosing to forgive. The point is that unless we accepted the responsibility of our own life and chose to do what we do, nothing constructive would happen.
One more thing common in all super successful people was that they had a passion, a ‘dream’. They dared to dream impossible and finally made it possible. We must dare to think unthinkable thoughts. Quaid-e-Azam, Mother Tressa, Abdul Sattar Edhi, Abraham Lincoln, George Washington, Winston Churchill, Bill Gates, Thomas Edison, Mr. Honda, Mr. McDonalds dared to dream something different and the world laughed at them but they never backed off. The secret of unleashing your talent is a challenging passion, a dynamic dream.
Unless u learn to think positively and developed beliefs that support your life vision, you’ll never make it happen. Every successful person was optimistic to an extent of being crazy. Our creator has gifted us with two sides of the brain, i.e. left and right. The left side of the brain is logical, critical, analytical and evaluative. The right side is intuitive, problem-solver and synthetic. If u r perceiving yourself for images, the right side is in charge. When u enter in to your imagination, u r engaging your right brain and telling your left brain to take a back seat. if u just want to criticise, it is the left side of the brain, but if instead of criticising only, u r more interested in finding a solution to the problem, it is the right brain’s job so try to use your right side of the brain more frequently. What the mind of man can conceive and believe, the mind of man can achieve. There is an agreed psychological principle that explains why subconscious mind always says “yes” to whatever your conscious mind tells. Each time u consciously say I lack something, your subconscious mind will say “yes”, u r right and it will lead u automatically to that direction. If u think of yourself as a failure that is what u would become. Use big and positive words to describe your feelings.
Another important thing that is necessary in life is that u should have belief in yourself, your abilities and belief that there is always an another day. Beliefs have the power to create and power to destroy. If u think u can, you will. If u think u cannot u will never.
One big problem that we have is that we always worry. According to a research conducted in Pakistan more than 90% people worry and they are so good at it. they do not take any action to address their worry, just worry and that worry becomes a reality. Only solution to this is to prepare for worry and that will worry goes away. We also do not use our decision-making muscles as much as we must be doing. And because we didn’t, they asleep. We do not have the courage to take decision. Take a few major or minor decisions right now that have been pending for so many years. Use your muscles, develop a habit of making decisions, make small decisions, make big decisions. and feel that how much confidence would u acquire just by taking decisions. deciding how to die is not a choice, but choosing how to live surely is.
I have never seen/heard of a single super successful person without failures. But they took failures just as a temporary setback. Remember one important thing we never learn from our successes, we always learn from our failures. Successes are made of failures. Remember all the major life changing decisions have been taken at the moments of failures. All opportunities come when u r at rock bottom. Every time a successful person failed he kept in learning from his setbacks and finally made it. every time u fail look inside instead of outside. Most of us do take our failures very seriously. We get depressed; stop trying or even would become suicidal but don’t fight with it. As long as want to grow, don’t avoid setbacks. Once u learn something from a setback it will never happen to u again. If however u do not it will keep on happening to u.
One more key to success is power of focus. Suppose right now u want to get depressed. Couldn’t u get depressed immediately? Yes u can. How was it possible? Simple answer, because u started focusing on all those bad things that have happened to u in the past. Remember the same way if u want to enjoy, if u want to be happy, u would have to start focusing all the good things that have happened to u instead. Unfortunately, we keep on focusing on all the bad things and then blame others for our depression, frustration, anger and what not. Power of determination is also very important for having a successful life. Another thing that lacks in most of us is the power of patience and persistence. Just look at the world around u and you will see people quitting almost at the point when they were about to make success. Have u ever wondered how all those who made tremendous success did all those things they were able to do? The biggest reason is the patience and persistence. ‘God is with those who steadfastly preserve’. Colonel Sanders took 1008 ‘Nos’ in his life. Just imagine the intensity of his belief on his product, himself and his persistence. If u r in a hurry to make it to a place before time by driving fast, u might never make it. you will exhaust yourself or might even kill yourself with that hurry. Your impatience would kill u. I have seen people fighting with their terminal diseases for years and years, and the only way they could do it was due to their patience and persistence. ‘success seems to be a largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go’. U need to walk slowly and gradually before u can start running. But on this road to success, many people try to make an over night success and consume themselves much earlier ‘those who patiently preserve will truly receive a reward without measure’.
Another imp thing which is necessary for a successful life is the power to love and respect people. Treat everyone equally with respect. Majority of people are good-natured, it is we who make them do what ever they do. We treat them with dis-respect and in return we don’t get the respect we deserve. Everyone of us needs respect, appreciation, encouragement, a listening ear and a heart to feel for us. But unfortunately we are not willing to give others what we want for ourselves. The next time u go to a restaurant, treat the waiter with courtesy, be courteous while ordering your meal, feel for him, don’t make him stand there for hours while u are deciding your meal. To live a successful, u can never make it by yourself. Successful people don’t make enemies, they make friends. Even if they are not loved they are respected. Do not criticise people. God Himself does not propose to judge the man until after death. Seek joy in what u give not in what u get. If u wished to be loved; love!. When dealing with people, we are not dealing with the creatures of logic, but with the; creatures of emotions, creatures persisting with prejudice, motivational pride and vanity. Try making as many friends as u can, wherever u go, whomever u visit, leave a mark. Someone rightly said. “the great men show their greatness by the way they treat little men”. And look at us the more we have, the more arrogant we become , the more discourteous we become. Wherever it was supposed to be the other way around. If someone mistreated u, and if u did the same thing, then what is the difference between u and him? Love and respect people unconditionally, encourage their primary greatness, don’t embarrass people, be generous in praise and stingy on criticism, never criticise, appreciate honestly and sincerely, smile often, call by name, be a good listener, make them feel imp, show respect for their opinion and point of view, be and stay friendly, see things from their point of view, be sympathetic with their ideas.
The best person that u can be accountable to is yourself. No one else can judge u better than u do yourself. Ask questions from yourself like
What is the purpose of my life?(Believe u me there is a vast majority who doesnt have any!)
What is my true reality?
Why do I live for and why?
What can I do to leave a mark on this world?
Why does he always top the class?
Why did u fail?
What different would I have done to avoid it?
Why this always happen to me?
One of the most important qualities if a successful life is character. U must think what character is? Well its like this; what we truly are, is only known to self. What people think of us is their perception of what we are? And that can be wrong. What we truly are, we are. Our body is only one percent of what we are; it is just like the packing. Ninety nine percent of what u truly are, is your inner self. Would u buy something that had a great packing? Definitely not. Even if u did, once u found out the true worth of things inside, either u would return it to the place, you bought it from or if could not, you would be disappointed and never go to that place again. Right? Why? A simple answer: even if u did like the packing, it was the not the only reason of buying that thing. The real objective was to buy the thing inside, not the packing. Packing comes with it and could be a major influencing factor to buy, but not the only factor. Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what u really are, while your reputation is merely what others think u are. The same is true for us. Our bodies are only packing; the real thing is inside. Unless u live with real moral strength, sooner or latter, people would find that out, and then your day’s would be over. Same stands for us in making friendships or relationships with others, we make them because of the other persons’ personality traits and break them because of their character. Why? If the character was so imp than why in the first place was that relationship formed on some other basis. It is a normal practice in this world of ours that most of the time there is a contradiction in what we do and what we believe is true. This is the reason why life has become so difficult. Character builds slowly, but it can be torn down with incredible swiftness. Nothing can bring the inner peace but our character. We should differentiate ‘good’ from ‘right’. If we like something we think it is good for us but try to see whether it is right as well? In this society of ours, our belief system is totally distorted. There was time few years back when people used to do all immoral things but their conscience was alive enough to admit it that it was wrong. But now it has become acceptable. We might get some personal gains and might succeed in the short run, but ultimately we can never build ourselves at the cost of someone and this is the law of nature.
A man without ethics is a wild beast loosed upon this world. I remember that in our school days it was taught to us that ‘honesty is the best policy’ but what I have learnt now is different than that. I don’t think that honesty is the best policy but it is the ONLY policy. Clear conscience never fears midnight knocking. Our basic belief system has distorted so much that our practices have become our beliefs instead of our beliefs becoming practices. Many times even if we wanted to do the ‘right’, it becomes difficult to know what is right. The best thing at time when u don’t really know what is ‘right’ is to put yourself in other’s shoes. How would u feel if this behaviour was meted out to u? once u put yourself in the receiving end, you will get the answer. There are number of other questions u could ask yourself to be certain about the ‘righteousness’ of your action.
Ask yourself questions like:
How would I feel about this action tomorrow morning?
How would I feel if this action was listed in the morning newspaper?
How would I feel if this happened to me?
What does my hunch, common sense or heart say about this?
A genius once rightly said, “I know only that what is moral is what u feel good after and what is immoral is what u feel bad after”
Remember one more thing that we are only responsible for ourselves. We need to choose what is right for us and do it. What others do and what they don’t do should not be used as an excuse for an easy escape. Sentences like 'Everyone does it...' 'you have to live with the society...' 'while in rome do what the romans do...' 'there is no life for a good person in this world so...' 'i know its right, but u know its really difficult coz...', are very common in our society. They choose to do it their way and we should choose to do it our way (no doubt as a Muslim its our duty to help them as much as we can to do the 'right' as well). That is what makes us humans; our abilities to make choices. Remember there is a price of our actions that we must pay. You would like to it pay it now or pay it later in some other way; u have to take the decision, right now. It is a choice. But learning from the experiences of others, it is better to choose and live your way and not let others control u. one more thing necessary for a good life is to help others in any way u can do. The true meaning of life is to plant trees, under whose shade you do not expect to sit. This is a very simple rule ; give more to have it more. Just remember if u want to lift yourself up lift up someone else. Someone rightly said ‘it is better to light one candle than to curse the darkness. Help others u might need their help someday. Helping the needy and poor is not a burden on us, it is a privilege. With this God actually provides us with an opportunity to protect and save ourselves. He kills two birds with one stone, He wants us to help others so that we may be helped. This is the way He wants it. it is not the case that He requires us, but he wants us to have the privilege of helping others because this is the only way of enriching ourselves. Our creator has created us interdependent. We depend on others for few things and they depend on us for few other things. One more small thing which is very imp is to; do something, do anything to make a person’s day. If there is nothing else u could do how about just a smile? A smile is also a charity. How about acknowledging or appreciating someone to make his or her day? I don’t understand why most of us are so reluctant or may be afraid of making a small effort to help others or server others? May be because we are embarrassed or may be just afraid of rejections or may be a fear of to be taken as fools. But u see if u really want your life to get enriched each and every day, u should be ready to feel embarrassed or feel stupid. It is for u. u don’t do it for others. There are so many things which u do for yourself and your family that can be embarrassing or stupid. Then why can’t u do this?? The next time if u see someone in trouble don’t just pass by with a fear of embarrassment of being rejected and then feeling guilty afterwards. Even if u get rejected at least u did whatever u could have done. At least u would not feel guilty afterwards. Live your life to its fullest. Experience anything and everything if u want to enjoy the life to its fullest.
Now I come to last part of this article and I believe that its the most imp one. Just ask a simple question from yourselves whenever u fail or something bad happens to u what’s your reaction? I can bet the first one must be “why did God this to me?” now ask one more question from yourselves that when u blame God for anything bad that happens to u did u ever asked God about that thing? Let me make this a little clear to u. We are all blessed with a thing called sixth sense or voice of heart or u can say voice of God. Whenever we are taking a decision our heart tells us whether it is rite or not but we have stopped listening to it and started depending more and more on our experiences and what our mind tells us. Our mind would tell us what we wanted it to tell or what we have fed in it in terms of thoughts and experiences. The fact is that we control our minds through our thoughts but we have no control over our hearts or sixth sense. Our heart always speak the truth if we hear it right. All of us require a mentor, a friend or a coach to guide us. A friend who is unbiased. A friend who is honest and truth worthy. A friend who is informed enough and a friend who would always think and want good for us. In this material world of our how many friends with this profile could u find. Not a single one, ‘right’? no ‘wrong’. There is one who has all these traits and that is God. The problem is that we have turned our back towards Him. We think that we are good enough to take all the decisions ourselves. And because we don’t ask Him most of the time He won’t tell us. Our creator loves us 70 times more than our mother does, but we have stopped going to Him for guidance. If we don’t seek His guidance he would not give to us. Our beliefs are distorted to the extent that now God has become an old fashioned thing in this new modern world. This is one side of the story. Believing in each and every signal of God even if it is against our wishes, on the other hand we must trust Him blindly no matter if the decision seems against our wishes. there are 3 answers to a prayer “yes”, “no” and “wait a while” and we have to realise that ‘no’ is an answer and we should accept it because God knows better than us whether that thing is good for us or not and we will realise latter on that our decision was right. We need to trust Him, whatever He could choose for us or ask us to do, must be right for us even if it was not what we actually wanted. There is a problem in this that as long a God tells us to do whatever we want we trust Him, the moment He tells us to do something against our wishes we turn our back towards Him. It is the sign of weak faith. U have to accept all His decision what may they be. If u lived with a faith so strong you would ultimately be at peace and would discover that all those decisions u took after His consultation ultimately proved to be right. But for this u have to submit yourselves fully to God, no ifs and buts. When u pray don’t mouth feed God. Just tell your wishes to God and ask Him to choose what is right for us.Now ask a small question from yourselves how would u feel if the most powerful person in the country is your relative? I m sure u would feel secure powerful and relaxed. The next question is how about if he told u to call him ten times a day to remind him of all of your work. I bet u would do it. u would call him and visit him many times to ensure that he does not forget u. u would pay visit and make courtesy call to thank him for the support or the favours he has given to u. u ensure that he is always on your top priority. Whenever there is a call from him u just close everything and go to meet him. U see u believe that he is the most powerful man in this country who can help u. but unfortunately he is not what u believe him to be. There is someone who is the most powerful of all the beings, the creator of this universe, without his order nothing moves. No one could take away what He decided to give and no one can give anything that He did not want u to have. He is the God. He is not dependent on anyone but we are all dependent on Him. Now tell me how powerful relaxed and secure would that person be whose friend was God? Well again a matter of faith and perspective. Unfortunately when he calls us we don’t have time for Him. Whereas we do have all the time of the world for every other thing and person but not for Him. Its the matter of faith. If u really believe on what He is and whatever he has told is right then how could we do all those things we do. How can we afford not to spare few minutes on a daily basis for Him? Why don’t we go to Him five times a day when he calls us? If we don’t have time for Him he also does not have time for us. U see when it comes to saying our prayers we take it as a burden on us. And the reason we take it as a burden is just due to the fact that we consider it doing something for someone else. In fact god does not need our prayer. If that was the only purpose He would have created other creatures who could have done nothing but worshipping Him. But it was not like this. He wants us to be productive. He wants us to explore, to discover the hidden realities of this universe and make it available for other human beings to enhance the quality of their lives. That is what religion is all about. It is the way of living our life productively so that we could do our job effectively and become successful. If He choose 5 times prayers for us, it was not Him who required it he actually gave an opportunity to go to Him, the true God and seek his Guidance instead of choosing those who themselves are as powerless as we are. For all those difficult decision of our lives where we lack wisdom and would like to have an advice of someone who knows it all He is the only choice. He knows we would require His guidance if we want to live with peace that’s why that He choose 5 mandatory prayers for us. The more we go to Him for advice and guidance the more He would be happy to contribute on our lives. Otherwise we would end up with frustration. The root cause of our fears, our guilt, our worries is our lack of faith. He clearly has indicated that He is the one who provided living to every creature on this universe then why seek our living from others? One who feels powerless cannot enjoy higher self-respect. The true self respect comes from the feeling that u r the master of your own destiny and could do anything that u wished to do. The true self respect comes from being free to choose at your own good will, it will only come when u take yourselves to the stage where u realise to use your own powers to be what u ought to be. But one more problem that we have is that we have become thankless creatures. We never thank Him for what he has given to us but are always complaining what he hasn’t given. Now tell me what would happen if someone gives u a gift and instead of thanking that person u start complaining? How many times this would happen before that person would stop giving u gifts. Same is true for God we never thank Him for what He has given us just always complain. Just look at yourselves what God has given to u, family, friends, ear, eyes, hands, legs and what not and look around yourselves and see how many people have all this? But still we are always ready to complain to Him. See whenever I need to take a difficult decision I give this task to God and let Him choose it for me. I do whatever He tells me to do. If I lose, I don’t blame myself, because of the faith that he must have thought good for me, even if I don’t see it right and then the time proves that it was right. U see how easy the life would become if we all did this way. Just remember that Laws of God are there to stay, forever. It might take this human race a little longer to realise those. The laws of God are solid like walls. We can bang our heads against the walls, but are not powerful enough to break the wall. Our job is to discover those laws learn from those and apply those in our daily lives. That is all we are empowered of doing, nothing more than that. Live your life to full live with God and let Him do all the worry for u.
If u r fortunate enough to have read the “Holy Quran” then u must be thinking that how well the teaching of Islam relate with all these successful habits. Yes. That it true. There is no other way to success but the way of “Holy Quran”. This is a bitter fact of the life. This is what I believe. I confess that there was a time when I was a Muslim by default(because I was born is a Muslim family) like 90 percent of the population. But did now know
Who the Muslims were?
What they were supposed to do?
Why were they declared as superior nations from others?
Why did Muslims become what they became?
Why we have lost our superiority over others?
Like many others I used to offer my prayers but never knew why?
Like the majority I also never took pride in being a Muslim but after studying Quran and a long struggle of finding(which still continues) the reality and root causes of all the issues finally I m a new Muslim. A Muslim by choice not by default with a faith that is increasing every day. Quran has given us clear guidance on all issues of the life 1400 yrs ago which west is learning now just look at few things Islam stops us from drinking wine and now it has been found that wine distorts our abilities to make choices and choice is what differentiates us from animals. We can and they cannot same is the case with anger. Anger does the same thing as alcohol does. It adversely affects our ability to make choices and we always have to regret on a decision that was taken in anger and its prohibited for us in Islam. The mind scientists have discovered that we become what we see, what we do, what we say, what we visualise, what we listen to, etc. that is the answer of why we need to be choosy to what to see, listen ,do or say. What do u think a person would become if he watched violent or unethical and immoral movies? Don’t u think that the answer the reason of increased violence and sexual crimes rate. Again that is why the God has prohibited that for us. Remember than God is not only ours. Whoever would do what He told them to do they will be rewarded by Him. The mere fact that we are Muslims is not enough to reap us all the benefits Allah has promised to us. U see Islam is not the religion of force but choice. If that was not the case Allah would have done it otherwise. He could have made it more difficult for non-Muslims forcing them to convert to Islam. It never happened that way because it was not meant to be that way. If u really want to change yourselves u need to change what is in your heart, first. u need to strengthen your faith and restructure your belief system. If u did this way everything else will fall in its place.
Last thing that I want to say is that if u want to know how u should spend your life and what are those principles just close your eyes and assume that u r standing besides the dead-body of a dear friend who will be buried in a short time. While his grave is being made people are talking about the person who just died. Now assume that it was not him who died it was actually u who did, and u were watching yourself lying on the death bed and people were talking about u. what would u like people to say about u after u die?? Once u really know what that was open your eyes slowly and write it on a piece of paper. Now look at what u wrote. I can bet that u would also have like to hear the same stuff that every one of us wants;
what a great loss
he was a gem of a person
he was a true gentleman
very honest and trust worthy
man of principles
man of character
always spoke the truth, did not matter, what did it cost him?etc...
Are these sort of comments u would like people so say about u after u die? U bet that is exactly what u would like to hear. It does not matter from who u asked this question u would get the same answer because these are the universal principles. We now it but unfortunately are not willing to use it because of small personal gains. This is our true reality but how much effort do we put in to earn this sort of reputation. At the end of the day all of us have the 7x4 feet of space. Lets see what would we take inside? What goes inside that space a total of 28 square feet is the true reality where either u would take your frauds, corruption, dishonesty, lies, cheating or would u rather take your honesty, truth and character. It is your choice so plz make a wise choice. BEST OF LUCK
P.S I wrote this article few years back when I started learning Islam...this article has been motivated by Faez Syal's books like 'Road to Success' & '360 Successful Habits'
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